Julia Hawkes – one of my Celebrant Role-models
Professionally I am saddened to see websites still referring to gay marriage or even worse same sex marriage – I simply don’t understand why there needs to be differentiation, why is there a need to suggest that marriage is somehow different for different groups of people? My approach to all couples is the same; the care, consideration and kindness shown to couples when I am planning their weddings is the same for every couple I meet. Many couples I meet have complicated family dynamics, sensitivities to be aware of, things they feel passionately about, things they wish to celebrate, challenges they have overcome – these are not unique circumstances! I think that sometimes separate web sections are introduced by well-meaning celebrants who wish to demonstrate their inclusivity but I would encourage them to rethink! Instead review the language and images used, the resources shared with couples, consider all the couples who will be looking at your website
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Why we still need PRIDE month in 2024
PRIDE month serves as a reminder that the fight for LGBTQ+ rights is far from over. Despite significant progress in recent years, discrimination, prejudice, and inequality persist in many parts of the world, including right here in the UK. While it’s heartening to see events like Pride taking place in small villages like mine, the reality is that LGBTQ+ individuals still face challenges on a daily basis.
Visibility and representation are crucial aspects of Pride month. When LGBTQ+ individuals are visible and proud of who they are, it sends a powerful message to society that diversity should be celebrated, not hidden or marginalized. But visibility goes beyond just showing up at Pride events—it’s about being seen and heard in all aspects of life, whether it’s in the workplace, in schools, or in public spaces.
